One of the things I can't quite understand when it comes to authors is why there is sometimes jealousy and animosity between writers. We're not in competition with one another. There are plenty of books to go around. Stories have been told long before we arrived, and will continue long after we're gone. If anything, we should support one another.
What benefit could there possibly be for me to know or associate with a failed writer? I can't think of anything. However, there are endless possibilities of knowing and associating with a successful one. Not only out of the goodness of my heart should I encourage, inspire and support my fellow authors, but it's in MY best interest to do so. I don't have to LOVE them, actually, I don't even have to LIKE them on a personal level, to support and wish them the best in their endeavors.
Still, from time to time, I come across that beleaguered and jealous writer who not only wishes for my failure, but will go out of their way to help support it. They’ll spread slander, malice and pray to the gods of destruction to place every obstacle and roadblock in my way. I feel sorry for them. They’ve already lost, and are already defeated, regardless of their book sales. This defeat may not reflect in their book sales (even a snake could sell a book) – but as a decent human being.
I choose to separate myself from those who only have negative thoughts, actions and intentions. Instead, I choose to surround myself with dreamers, artists and people who desire to share their gifts and talents with the world. I may, or may not, hit the New York Times Best-Seller list, but I’m already a success , because I’ve surrounded myself with successful people.
Till next time,
~T.L. Gray
