This was a post from a group called Wild Woman Sisterhood,
and it encompasses my soul. THIS is what I’ve come to see in myself. This is what fuels my love for myself, and the
love I have for others. I am a deep woman. I’m learning more and more why the
relationships of my past have never worked.
Even now, when I meet or am introduced to a new man, I first consider the
woman that I am and THEN determine if he would be able to keep up with me, to
be able to dive into the depths. It’s
not fair for invest any portion of my heart to a man incapable of filling the depths
of it. A shallow man, a stupid man, a
simple man, a lazy man, an uncommitted man that can’t swim or fly would never
do.
I am a deep woman and I love that about myself.
Listen to the wisdom of the wild woman…
The deeper you are, the harder it becomes for you to find
someone who wants to have a relationships with you. You can go out on a lot of
dates but at some point the relationship fails to progress any further and that
is mainly because of the intensity of your depth. Not every man is strong
enough to handle a deep woman. Here’s why:
1. A deep woman asks deep questions. A deep woman will dive further
into your life and ask questions that you may not be prepared to answer. Even
on the first date, she will dig deeper and ask personal and philosophical
questions –she will never enjoy a shallow conversation.
2. A deep woman is honest. Too honest –often blunt. A deep
woman takes her integrity seriously and one thing she believes in is honesty.
If you ask her anything, she will tell you the truth and she expects the same
from you.
3. A deep woman knows what she wants. Or who she wants. A
deep woman knows right away if she likes you and doesn’t need to date around or
explore her other options to be sure of her feelings. Her heart only beats for
a special few people and she knows them right away.
4. A deep woman wants a deep relationship. She wants long
conversations about your life, she wants to hear stories about your past, she
wants to understand your pain and she wants to add value to your life. She
wants a real relationship that goes beyond going out and having fun.
5. A deep woman is not afraid of intimacy. She is not afraid
of getting closer or risking getting hurt in the process. She doesn’t think it
will entrap her freedom or make her vulnerable. Her depth and intimacy go hand
in hand and she will always cherish the beauty of intimacy in relationships.
6. A deep woman sees through you. She can see who you really
are and what makes you vulnerable. She is not the one to hold back from
pointing out what she sees in you or how well she can read you. Even though it
makes you uncomfortable, she wants you to know that she understands you and
that you can be yourself around her.
8. A deep woman is intense. She may be slightly intimidating
because she brings intensity to everything she does. Her emotions are intense
and so are her thoughts. She will never be indifferent about things that matter
to her – not everyone is strong enough to handle her intensity.
9. A deep woman only knows how to love deeply. If you can’t
love her deeply, she will walk away. She doesn’t know how to casually date
someone she’s really into or be friends with someone she has feelings for. A
deep woman knows when someone can’t meet her halfway and she will slowly detach
herself from anyone who is not willing to give her the deep love she is looking
for.
10. A deep woman won’t wait for you. She will not wait for
you to make up your mind or watch you be hesitant about her. She is strong and
passionate and will not waste her emotions on someone who doesn’t appreciate
their depth. Even though she is looking for a special kind of love, a deep
woman is not afraid of being on her own.
–Rania Naim
Till next time,
T.L. Gray
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