I feel like I’ve spent most of my life waiting on something to break through, someone else to make a move, somewhere else to be the home I’ve searched for my whole life; waiting to be loved, to be accepted, hell… just to be remembered. Well …no more waiting.
I made a resolution with the New Year to put my grief behind me, put away those broken dreams, let go of the pain of loss and rejection. I can’t fly with these things tethered to my ankles keeping me grounded. Waiting has benefited everyone else but me. Waiting allows my soul to be stripped away piece by piece.
I’ve been paralyzed to move forward; because moving risks losing what I’m afraid to lose. I realize, I have nothing left to lose, except me. Moving forward may break my heart, but it saves my soul.
In retrospect, I was waiting for me all along, I was too focused on others to see that. I’m a broken soul, shattered into many pieces, and all this waiting was me trying to fill those cracks with something else, someone else, and somewhere else… when really the only thing that could fill them was me. I just didn’t believe I was enough.
I still have cracks, and some days I can feel the emptiness and sharp edges, and remember those unfulfilled dreams, but I’m not waiting anymore. I’m enough. Love me, hate me, want me, or walk away – no more waiting. When you’ve got nothing to lose, you’re not afraid to move.
Some of you won’t like the new me, because you’ve fed for so long on pieces of me to fill your own holes. Some of you have been water to my thirsty soul, and I know with all my heart you are with me – and we’re moving, not waiting. We will fly together – and if not, I will fly alone, but fly nonetheless. I cry this morning, not in grief, but freedom. I feel the wind on my face, flowing beneath my wings, and the shackles falling from my ankles. To those I leave behind… I’m so sorry, but I can’t carry you and I can’t allow you to keep me grounded.
Till next time,