Mt. Rainier - 06/09/2013 |
I’m not Supergirl, though
that would be wickedly awesome to be able to fly away anywhere I wanted to go
or simply fly away when needed; to have super strength and never show a moment
of weakness; to have x-ray vision and see things clearly for what they are, not
what they appear to be; to be able to
hear what is too soft, too low or too far away to understand or comprehend; to
leap tall obstacles that get in my way; and be faster than bullets that fly and
seek to destroy me almost daily. Alas, I am only human.
I cannot save the world,
nor is it my job. I cannot save anyone
else, only one person …me. No one else can save me either; it’s something one
must do for themselves. I’d love for
someone to swoop in and sweep me off my feet, make all my dreams come true,
dissolve all my worries, fight away all my fears and love me with their whole
heart. Though I write fiction, I don’t
believe in fairy tales. The truth is - I
have to do all those things for myself.
Someday I’ll want to
share me with someone, so I need to make sure what I have to share is my
best. I don’t want to give someone I
claim to love something that’s broken, weak, timid or frail. That wouldn’t be me sharing me - they would
be them carrying me. I also don’t want
to carry anyone else because I can barely hold myself. They’d end up resenting me or I would resent
them, and that’s not a healthy relationship.
I’m on the road to saving
myself, to loving myself, and fighting to fulfill my dreams. Someday, I’ll meet someone who will love me
completely, and I’ll have something beautiful, whole, and strong to share with
them. That would be a wonderful world
in which to live.
Till next time,
~T.L. Gray
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